A Letter To My First Born

Adrian Duke Mtambo

Dear child,

As I sit down to write this letter to you, my heart is overflowing with love, pride, and immense joy. On the 16th of January 2024, the moment we had eagerly anticipated for nine months finally arrived. You came into this world and instantly became the light of our lives. Tears of happiness streamed down my cheeks as I held you for the first time, and I realized that my world had changed forever.

Your arrival was a miracle, a moment of pure, unfiltered emotion that will remain etched in my memory for the rest of my life. It's hard to put into words the depth of my gratitude and love for you, my dear son. Your mother and I had waited for this day with so much hope and excitement, and seeing your cute and handsome face made every moment of that wait worthwhile. And then there was your smile, a cute and affectionate smile that you've had since day one, lighting up our hearts and filling our lives with even more joy.

Your mother, your wonderful mom, is the most beautiful person I have ever known, both inside and out. She has a heart full of love and compassion, and her strength and grace have always been a source of inspiration for me. Throughout her pregnancy, she was a beacon of resilience, always looking out for you, nurturing you, and preparing for your arrival with so much care and affection. Adrian, you are incredibly lucky to have her as your mom. She will be your guide, your confidant, and your greatest supporter. Her love for you is boundless, and she will always be there for you, no matter what.

Now, let me tell you about the names we chose for you - Adrian Duke Mtambo. We spent a lot of time thinking about these names because we wanted them to reflect the hopes and dreams we have for you.

  • Adrian is a name of Greek origin, meaning "rich". Historically, the name has been associated with strength and nobility. It evokes a sense of steadfastness and resilience, qualities that we hope you will embody as you grow. We chose this name because we believe that you will grow up to be a strong, compassionate, and wise person, someone who can navigate through life's challenges with grace and courage.
  • Duke, on the other hand, is a name that signifies leadership and honor. It brings to mind a person of high rank, someone who commands respect and acts with integrity. By giving you this name, we hope to instill you with a sense of responsibility and a desire to lead by example. We want you to be a person who inspires others, who stands up for what is right, and who carries himself with dignity and kindness.
  • And lastly, the name Mtambo is of African origin, particularly from the Swahili language. It's a surname that carries connotations of creativity, skill, and the ability to shape or construct things. In a broader sense, it symbolize someone who is resourceful, innovative, and capable of bringing ideas to life.

Together, Adrian Duke Mtambo, your names symbolize our aspirations for you - to be strong yet compassionate, a leader who is honorable and wise. We want you to grow into a man who is not only successful but also kind-hearted, resourceful and just.

As you embark on this journey of life, know that your mother and I will always be here to support you. We will celebrate your victories and help you learn from your setbacks. We will provide you with a loving and nurturing environment where you can grow and explore your potential. Our love for you is unconditional, and it will remain a constant source of strength and comfort for you.

Adrian, you have brought so much joy into our lives. Your arrival has filled our hearts with a love that we never knew was possible. Every moment with you is a precious gift, and we are so grateful to have you as our son. We promise to cherish and nurture you, to guide you and support you, and to love you with all our hearts.

As you grow older, you will face many challenges and triumphs. Remember that you are never alone. Your mother and I will always be by your side, cheering you on and helping you navigate the twists and turns of life. We believe in you, Adrian, and we know that you will achieve great things.

Welcome to the world, my dear son. You are our greatest blessing, and we are so proud to be your parents. We love you more than words can express, and we look forward to watching you grow into the incredible person you are destined to be.

With all my love,

Dad